Anger and lack of appreciation

At times we may find ourselves angry for some reason. Whether a good reason or not a good reason. We must remember that what we make of the situation determines the next set of circumstances. If one reacts with harsh intent then the situation may get even worse.
Thoroughly think through your actions because at times it may not even be worth the anger.
Sit down relax and examine the situation. This actually may increase your anger but wait until the feelings have settled. If you then realize that the reason you are angry is not a serious reason, then I say, ignore it.
Yet, if the situation seems like it might affect future your relationship with that person if not confronted, then fix it.
The problem with anger over silly reasons is that tomorrow may not come.
Its really scary to think that, but it helps me in certain situations.
If you really care, you will try to fix it. Whether that means that you simply ignore it, you confront it, or you just be patient.
Also very important is that patience is something that must be consistently practiced. it is not a simple thing. If you find it difficult to do, then ask for help from the most patient person ever, God.
We may fall into a hissy fit and only concentrate on that particular problem, and we tend to forget that there are many things in this life that are to be thankful of.
Look around and appreciate what love we have from others, what accomplishments we have made, and what delicious food we have eaten.

Psalms 4:4
Be angry, and no not sin.
Meditate within your heart on your bed, and be still.

Proverbs 16:32
He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city

Psalms 30:5
For His anger is but for a moment,
His favor is for life.
Weeping may endure for a night.
But joy comes in the morning.